nurse my son for eleven months, and I repeat it often was and still is a wonderful experience.
said that I want to be honest with you ... Breastfeeding is not a walk and often through very challenging times.
Breastfeeding your baby is to grow together, becoming a mother always more conscious, give themselves completely, follow the path as rewarding as it is complex and intense.
In recent months I have encountered many difficulties, I experienced moments of physical and mental fatigue, I felt at least once: helpless, frustrated, drained, sad, desperate because I did not know what to do, with a great desire to escape .. . Sometimes babies cry all night without stopping, sometimes they do not eat, sometimes they do not want to attack, it can happen that would refuse the breast, other times they just ask for it, suck for hours straight ... There are days when we seem not to understand what our child wants, day in which we seem to go mad ...
I have learned in recent months to accept the responsibility to feed my son with all the consequences that this entails, for better or for worse. I learned to let go of stress, I unawakened that nobody is perfect and that every mom can make mistakes and to go all out to give the best for your child is certainly the right starting point.
I understand that no mother can not have everything under control, you have to live day by day, the miracle of a creature that grows and brings to life, learns to understand his needs and try to communicate to his mother, his point of reference in this new adventure!
And here I am, therefore, arrived at the suggestion of this post: the first difficulties do not give up ... Many women, rather than talk to convince someone of not being able to nurture a child, they feel alone, do not have the right support from those around them and so they decide to quit, blaming the source of feeding the deep malaise .
But we must not turn in on themselves, we must talk and talk and talk yet. Immediately you discover that you are not alone but to be in the company of virtually all new mothers in the world, in different ways, are experiencing the same difficulties.
Ask for help and assistance to those who can offer it. A friend who has breastfed, the father who is longing to be helpful, the hospital midwives where you have given birth, the staff of the clinic where your baby weighed. Looking for a mentor, someone who can reassure you, someone you trust, whatever it is. Even if you like me!
The important thing is not to feel stupid, do not think that their feelings are the ravings of a weak and tired, never detracting from, rather than accept the difficulties and move on, maybe up laughing through the words of someone who has already passed! !
said that I want to be honest with you ... Breastfeeding is not a walk and often through very challenging times.
Breastfeeding your baby is to grow together, becoming a mother always more conscious, give themselves completely, follow the path as rewarding as it is complex and intense.
In recent months I have encountered many difficulties, I experienced moments of physical and mental fatigue, I felt at least once: helpless, frustrated, drained, sad, desperate because I did not know what to do, with a great desire to escape .. . Sometimes babies cry all night without stopping, sometimes they do not eat, sometimes they do not want to attack, it can happen that would refuse the breast, other times they just ask for it, suck for hours straight ... There are days when we seem not to understand what our child wants, day in which we seem to go mad ...
I have learned in recent months to accept the responsibility to feed my son with all the consequences that this entails, for better or for worse. I learned to let go of stress, I unawakened that nobody is perfect and that every mom can make mistakes and to go all out to give the best for your child is certainly the right starting point.
I understand that no mother can not have everything under control, you have to live day by day, the miracle of a creature that grows and brings to life, learns to understand his needs and try to communicate to his mother, his point of reference in this new adventure!
And here I am, therefore, arrived at the suggestion of this post: the first difficulties do not give up ... Many women, rather than talk to convince someone of not being able to nurture a child, they feel alone, do not have the right support from those around them and so they decide to quit, blaming the source of feeding the deep malaise .
But we must not turn in on themselves, we must talk and talk and talk yet. Immediately you discover that you are not alone but to be in the company of virtually all new mothers in the world, in different ways, are experiencing the same difficulties.
Ask for help and assistance to those who can offer it. A friend who has breastfed, the father who is longing to be helpful, the hospital midwives where you have given birth, the staff of the clinic where your baby weighed. Looking for a mentor, someone who can reassure you, someone you trust, whatever it is. Even if you like me!
The important thing is not to feel stupid, do not think that their feelings are the ravings of a weak and tired, never detracting from, rather than accept the difficulties and move on, maybe up laughing through the words of someone who has already passed! !